Archives For May 2010

       A meaningful Mother’s Day gift does not have to be expensive. Here are some great, inexpensive gift ideas your mom will cherish for years. (Dads, these are some good ideas for you if you need to help your kids!)

Give Her Your Time

       Make your mom happy by giving her the gift of your time. Make coupons promising to do something special for her. These can be as simple as “Will wash the dishes” or “Will cook dinner one night” to something a little more difficult like “Will not complain for a day” or “Will babysit the younger kids”. Think of something your mom would really appreciate (but you don’t do often enough) and make a coupon for her. Have fun and decorate it a bit, too!

Breakfast in Bed

       Wake up early on Mother’s Day and fix your mom breakfast in bed. If you’re not old enough to be cooking, make sure you get the help of your dad or someone older. Don’t worry if you’re not a professional chef. Put together something your mom likes even if it’s just eggs and bacon with orange juice. Top it off with a flower on her tray. (Oh, and don’t forget to clean up after you’re done cooking!!!)

Homemade Cards & Gifts

       Young kids can draw a picture and write a simple message. It doesn’t need to be fancy. Mom will love it! Older kids can try to make something crafty. Check out Instructables.com for tons of great (and frugal) ideas.

Scrapbook & Memories

       Scrapbooking can become expensive, but if you use what you have you can create something great for very little money. How about writing your mom a letter telling her your favorite memories together from the past year? A memory jar can be fun as well. Take a Mason jar, fill it with slips of paper that describe your favorite memories of mom, and then tie some ribbon around it to make a bow. Put enough memories in so mom can take on each day for a month (or if you’re ambitious, a year!).

Homemade Bath Scrubs

       Skip the expensive mall stores and make your own bath scrubs. Using salt or sugar and some other ingredients you probably have around the house, you can make a nice bath scrub for your mom. Here’s one way to make bath scrubs. Another interesting idea is bath bombs. They make the bath water fizzy and fragrant.

Your Ideas?

       You don’t need to spend a ton of money to make your mom happy this Mother’s Day. Do you have some ideas for frugal, cheap, and inexpensive Mother’s Day gifts? Share them in the comments!

       If you’re looking for an estate planning attorney, it’s smart to have a few questions to ask before hiring one. A standard set of questions will help you compare several attorneys before making a choice. These five questions will help you find an attorney who is capable of handling your situation successfully.

1. What’s Your Background & Experience?

       There are numerous fields of expertise in the practice of law. Real estate, business, family, and estate are some of the major ones. Obviously, you’d prefer an attorney who specializes in the area where you need help – estate law in this case. Find out how long the attorney has been practicing in this area, where they went to school, who they’ve worked for previously, and how much of their time is currently spent on situations similar to yours.

2. What’s Your Process?

       Ask how the attorney will be working with you. How is information gathered? How are revisions made to my documents? How many revisions are included in my fee package? Are there any ways I can lower the costs by being more prepared/doing things myself? The answers to these questions will help you know what to expect and also uncover some ways you may be able to pay less.

3. Will You Do the Work Yourself?

       Attorneys often pass off some of their work to paralegals or junior attorneys within the firm. Find out how involved the attorney will be with your situation. If other people will be working on the matter, your fees should reflect that fact. The time that paralegals and junior attorneys work on your situation should cost less than the attorney’s fee.

4. How Do You Charge?

       Does the attorney work on an hourly basis, for a flat fee, on retainer, or on some combination or other method? What are the fees involved for the attorney’s time? How are expenses (like copying, filing fees, mailing, etc.) handled and charged? What are my payment options? How will I be billed? Be sure you understand the attorney’s compensation and what expenses you’ll be responsible for before hiring the attorney.

5. What Will This Cost Me?

       The attorney should be able to give you an estimate for the total cost of the services you need. If you’re getting a will, power of attorney, and advance medical directive, the attorney should be able to provide you with a general cost for these documents. If the attorney is unwilling to provide you with an estimate or remains vague, move on and find someone who will be more upfront. Understand that while it can be difficult for the attorney to know what the total cost will be, they should be willing to provide you with a possible and reasonable range of fees.

Your Thoughts

       What other questions would you ask before hiring an attorney? Share your thoughts in the comments.

       Looking for a cheap, natural way to kill weeds? Here are 6 recipes you can use.

1. Boiling Water

       No recipe here. Simply pour boiling water over the offending weed and it will die. Be careful though. Boiling water can’t tell the difference between a good plant and an evil weed, so pour with discretion. This can be the cheapest weed killer by far if you use boiling water left over from cooking. (If you need to drain the food, simply catch the hot water in another pot.)

2. Vinegar

       Vinegar mixed with a bit of liquid soap is quite effective as a weed killer. The general ratio is one ounce of soap (a good squirt) to one gallon of vinegar. If you’re mixing up a smaller batch, just use less soap. The vinegar is made of acetic acid, which will remove the moisture from the plant. The soap just helps the vinegar stick to the plant’s leaves. Vinegar that’s 5% acidity will work OK, but 10% or 20% acidity is better. You can find the stronger vinegar at garden supply stores.

       This solution works best on a hot, sunny, dry day. You’ll kill anything you spray, so be careful around the plants you want to keep. Vinegar as weed killer will only kill the foliage of the plant – not the root. So repeat applications may be necessary for success. But hey, it’s cheap so it won’t cost much to do it a few times.

       Finally, don’t add salt to the solution. Some recipes tell you to do so, but you’ll make the ground unsuitable for just about any growing thing for quite some time. You don’t need it to successfully kill the weeds. (Although salt would be great if you never want anything to grow there again for a while. Cracks in the sidewalk or your driveway come to mind.)

3. Bleach

       Personally, I wouldn’t use this because it’s toxic and not best for the groundwater. (That matters to me because we get our water from a well.) But you won’t be using much, so I’m not sure it’s that big of a deal. Simply put some bleach in a spray bottle with a little soap and mist your weeds. Again, it’ll kill everything so aim carefully. (On second thought, this doesn’t qualify as natural or organic but it’s cheap and homemade.)

4. Rubbing Alcohol

       Rubbing alcohol will also draw out moisture from weeds. Mix about one tablespoon of rubbing alcohol for every cup of water in your spray bottle. Apply just like the vinegar or bleach solutions above.

5. Corn Meal

       Corn meal isn’t really a weed killer, but it can be used to keep weed seeds from sprouting. Actually, it’ll keep any seed from sprouting. Technically, you want corn gluten meal but that can be expensive if you get it from a garden supply store. Here’s a hint: go to an animal feed store. You can get corn gluten meal much cheaper there.

       You can use cornmeal that you buy at the store as well, but it won’t be quite as effective. On a different note, regular cornmeal is also useful as a fungicide. You can get regular cornmeal much cheaper (and in bulk) if you buy agricultural grade cornmeal. Just don’t eat it.

6. Elbow Grease

       OK, so this one doesn’t really count but it works. You don’t have to buy anything, and you don’t have to worry about harmful side effects on the environment, your kids, your pets, or yourself. Plus, it’ll help you get some exercise and relieve stress (maybe…). You’ll have to spend your time pulling the weeds, but if you get the roots you’ll be very effective.