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How Much House Do You Really Need?

Corey —  October 20, 2009

A. H. Allyn Mansion by cliff1066TM on Flickr
       The median size of a new home in America has grown from 1,200 square feet in 1940 to over 2,200 square feet in 2008. And it’s not because our families are getting bigger – the average household size has shrunk from 3.7 to 2.6 in that same time period. Discontentment has fueled the false need for more space. Larger families thrived in smaller homes in the old days. And most families around the world live in small homes today. It’s not that we need all this extra space. We just want it.

       The problem with our imaginary need for bigger houses is that it artificially inflates home and land prices. These increased prices and our “need” for bigger homes stretches our finances far beyond the amount we can afford.

But It’s a Good Investment!

       The myth of a home as a good investment has also led us to believe that more is better. First, look at the costs. What other “investment” can you buy that has maintenance costs of 1-3% a year, is taxed every year, needs to be insured, and needs to be filled with furniture all while appreciating at about the rate of inflation? Yes, mortgage interest and real estate taxes are tax deductible, but the deduction is not as good as you think. Homes have the highest costs for some of the lowest returns of any investment option out there.

       Second, for a home to really be an “investment” you have to be able to get your money back out of it. Otherwise, it doesn’t really matter how much it has appreciated – that growth does you no good if you can’t touch it. So let’s look at your options. You can sell your home and downsize, you can get a home equity line of credit, or you could get a reverse mortgage (if you qualify). The HELOC and reverse mortgage are terrible ideas and only detract from the idea of your home being a good investment. The costs for those options far outweigh any benefits of owning a home as an investment.

       As for the other option, how many people do you know that have actually sold their home and downsized to access the growth of their “investment”? Some do, but most people look at that option as constricting and undesirable. They’ve built their life around that home and created many memories there. They don’t want to leave if they don’t absolutely have to.

       The truth is we only think of a home as a good investment because we fail to track all the costs accurately. If we kept good records, most of us would probably find that it’s pretty much a wash. A home is not an investment. It’s a liability and expense. You’ll save yourself a ton of money if you learn to look at it that way.

The Issue of Space

       Once we can stop looking at a home as an “investment” (and stop using that as an excuse to buy more house), the next thing we need to consider is just how much space we really need. If you’re struggling to figure out how you can afford to buy a house, going through this thought process could help you determine that a smaller house would meet your needs just as well.

       My wife and I rent a house with about 1,500 square feet of livable space. Based on how we’re using this space, I know we could live in 1,000 square feet or less quite easily. Yes, the extra space is nice, but we don’t need it. If we needed to make cuts in our budget, we could try moving to a smaller place. (Though it would be difficult to find anything for much less than what we’re paying to rent this place!)

       Consider your actual space needs before deciding you must have a certain house. Take bedrooms for example. How much time will you actually spend using your bedroom while you’re awake? Unless it’s extremely cramped, you’re not going to care much about how big your bedroom is while you’re sleeping in there. If you have children, can they share a room? Although most kids in our culture today have their own room, it’s not a necessity.

       If you feel like you need more space because you have so much stuff you need to store, consider selling or donating the things you don’t really use. The extra space you free up can help you downsize or just give you extra space you can do something useful with.

       I’m not saying you should make yourself miserable, but you should carefully consider your needs before stretching yourself to buy more house than you can afford. Just because a bank is willing to loan you a certain amount of money doesn’t mean you should use all of it to buy your house. Just because a Realtor suggests that you can afford a bigger house doesn’t mean you should believe them. They have a conflict of interest in convincing you to buy more house than you really need.

       The point is this – don’t convince yourself or let someone else convince you that you need to buy a bigger house than you really need. If you’re going to be pushing the limits of your budget, back off for a bit and consider your true needs. Reevaluate your situation and see if a smaller house would do just as well. Then look for the house that matches your needs rather than the house that’s just under the maximum amount you can borrow.

       Housing is by far the biggest cost in most budgets. If you can save a good chunk of money in this one area, you’ll have a much easier time staying on top of your finances and reaching your goals.

       There are many ways to create a budget and track your spending. The only “right” way is the way that works for you. This is a short list of some ways you can track your spending and create a budget.

Paper & Pencil or a Spreadsheet (Microsoft Excel, OpenOffice Calc, or Google Docs Spreadsheet)

Pencils and Moleskines 04 by Paul Worthington on Flickr       Creating your own method of tracking and categorizing your spending and then creating a budget can give you a much better understanding of your situation. It takes a bit of time and is not the easiest way by far, but it is free and keeps all of your information private. You simply create categories for all of your expenses, track them manually, and then create or update your budget as your situation changes. If you don’t have the discipline to track all of your expenses and continue to update the spreadsheet, then I don’t recommend you try this method.

Quicken

       Quicken has been the standard personal money management software for quite some time, but many competitors are emerging and offering better products. Quicken can import data from your financial institutions, track your spending and help you create a budget, and offers various reports so you can get a better picture of your financial situation. Quicken Online is currently free (but that could change), so if you’re comfortable storing all of your login information online in one spot you might want to check it out. If you want an alternative that keeps all your information on your computer, you can try Quicken Deluxe for $59.99. (You might be able to find a better deal elsewhere online, so shop around!) My own personal experience with Quicken Deluxe wasn’t especially great. It takes a while to set it up and you’ll have to get familiar with how the program works. However, if you need a way to automatically track your spending it may be worth the initial effort.

Mint

Mint       Mint is a free, online money management program that can pull together all of your bank, credit union, and credit card data to help you track your spending and budget for your expenses. To get all that information in one place, you’ll have to give them your user names and passwords. While Mint uses the same kind of data encryption as your bank, there is still risk in putting all of your financial information in one place online. If that data were ever compromised, you’d have to change the information on all your accounts to protect yourself. I’m OK with using Mint because I researched their security measures and feel comfortable with it, but you might not. I recommend you look into it for yourself and make your own decision. Also, Mint’s computer algorithms look at your spending patterns to offer you specific deals through their sponsors so you may or may not be comfortable with that as well.

Mvelopes

Mvelopes       Mvelopes is another online money management program that has received good reviews around the web. You get a free 30 day trial, but after that it will cost you anywhere from $7.90/month to $13.20/month depending on the membership period you select. Like Mint, Mvelopes gathers data from your bank, credit union, and credit card accounts to help you track your spending and create a budget. Again, I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable with having all of my account logins stored in one place regardless of the encryption and security used. But if you’re comfortable with it, Mvelopes might be another easy way to start tracking your spending and keeping a budget.

My Method

Google Docs       Personally, I just use a Google Docs Spreadsheet to create a budget so I can have an idea of what my spending should look like. Every so often, I check over different categories to make sure I’m not overspending. However, I don’t really track my spending closely because I have my spending well under control, my savings is automatic, my bills are on auto-pay, and I have a sizable emergency fund. Unless all of those apply to you, I recommend you track your spending. The Spreadsheet method also isn’t for those who don’t have the discipline to dig in and do most of the dirty work themselves (as opposed to a computer program doing the grunt work for you). Here’s a template of the Google Spreadsheet I use. You can save a copy for yourself if you have a Google account and use their “Save” feature under the “File” menu. You should be able to save a copy to your computer, too. You’ll have to edit it for your own situation, as I can’t list every possible expense category a person might have.

There’s More Than One Way to Skin a Budget

       There are many other ways you can track your spending and create a budget. I didn’t even mention You Need a Budget or PearBudget. You can also do variations on any of these methods. For example, for the paper & pencil method you could use envelopes to split up your money and make sure you don’t overspend. What are some other methods you use to track your spending or maintain a budget? Leave your tips in the comments!

       Budgets are good. That’s right. I just said a budget is good. We hate the sound of that word, don’t we? It reeks of denial, hardship, restraint, and, for most people, boredom. But failing to create a budget and stick to it (to some degree) is one of the primary reasons so many people have a hard time managing their personal finances. So here are a few reasons why it’s good to have a budget and track your expenses.

You can easily figure out if you’re spending too much money.

       By tracking and totaling your expenses over one or two months, you can easily figure out if you’re spending too much money. Add up your monthly income, subtract your monthly expenses, and if the result is negative then you’re spending too much money. There are other ways to tell if you’re spending too much money (is your debt increasing every month?), but this is one surefire way to double check it.

You can see where your money is going.

       It’s easy to lose track of all your bills and remember where you spent the cash you had in your wallet or purse. By creating a budget and continuing to track your spending, you can keep a comprehensive list of all your expenses and how much they cost. From there, you can see where your biggest outflows are and find ways to save money in those areas.

You can target specific areas for improvement.

       Once you’ve tracked your spending for a bit and are comfortable with the numbers, you can decide on budget goals. Where do you want to cut back and by how much? If you don’t have your budget written down (on paper or electronically), it’s much more difficult to set these goals for yourself.

You’ll start spending less.

       The mere act of tracking your spending is likely to cause you to spend less. Why? You’ll become more conscious of your spending habits and begin to carefully examine your purchases. Once you start to question whether or not you need to spend money you’ll start spending less. Be careful – Corporate America doesn’t want you to do this!

You can have less stress and make better decisions.

       Do you want to take your significant other out to dinner but you’re not sure if you can afford it? Check your budget. Friends invite you on a weekend road trip but you’re worried about money? Check your budget. If you can fit the expense into the appropriate budget category, then you can spend without guilt. (Assuming, of course, that you are meeting your savings goals.) Finally, you’ll have a good idea of how much money you should have in your emergency fund. Take your necessary monthly expenses and multiply by some number between 3 and 12. (You can’t do this if you don’t know your monthly living expenses!)

My Budgeting Confession

       With all that said, I have to tell you that I no longer stick to a strict budget. I track my expenses in Mint, but I don’t restrict my spending in any certain categories. I do have a budget, but it’s mostly because I like numbers. I don’t manually keep track of what I spend. I have all my bills set on auto-pay (except heating oil), my savings is automatic, I have a sizable emergency fund, and I have my spending under control. If you can say the same about your own situation, then I actually encourage you not to track your spending too closely. It’s a waste of time if you don’t need it. But I would still recommend periodically reviewing your spending with a tool like Mint to make sure you don’t get too far off track.

       On the other hand, if you aren’t paying yourself first (automatic savings), haven’t established an emergency fund, or don’t have your spending under control, then you absolutely need a budget until you get to that point. If you really hate the idea of budgeting and tracking your expenses, just remind yourself that eventually you won’t have to do it anymore. It’s only temporary!

       I’m going to make a confession. Although I recommend you create and use a budget, my wife and I don’t actually follow our budget. In truth, that’s not a confession because I have nothing to feel guilty about. Why? Because we have our spending under control. We’re not big spenders and we don’t buy on impulse. Our savings, giving, and bills come first. We live easily on the rest because we control our money.

       I hope you, too, will be able to say the same someday. But until your spending is completely under control and you have laid a firm foundation for your finances, you need to make and stick to a budget. You can live without a budget, but first you must learn how to live within your budget.

       I made my first budget when I was 15 years old. I was a very independent teenager and paid for the things I needed on my own (aside from the very basic necessities). No one taught me how to create a budget. I just understood the simple math that I cannot spend more than I earn or I’ll be in trouble. At that age, credit and loans were not an option, and I’m grateful that’s the mindset I grew up with. I learned to stick to my budget very carefully – down to the last dollar. If I spent too much money on one thing, I adjusted for it somewhere else. And I always made sure my important expenses were covered first.

       This discipline of budgeting, tracking my spending, and sticking to my budget carried over into college. I had more money now, but I still had to be very careful how I spent it. Credit cards became an available option, and I hate to say that I did make some mistakes. For the most part, I stuck to my budgets very well. However, I did end up coming out of college with about $5,000 in credit card debt.

       When I graduated, I made paying off my credit card debt my top priority. I promised myself I would pay it off in that first year out of college. I made a new budget and carefully watched my spending so I could put any extra money toward paying off that credit card debt. Because of my dedication, I paid off all my credit card debt in less than 10 months. I even managed to save about $3,000 in an emergency fund over that same time period! I learned the value of keeping a tight rein on my spending and avoiding impulse purchases.

       After that experience of living within a tight budget, I found it much easier to control my spending. I still have a budget, but I no longer find the need to track all of my spending carefully. I look it over from time to time, but I don’t have to track every penny. Because I can control my spending and say “no” to impulse buys, I can easily live on what’s left over after my savings, giving, and bills.

       You can do the same, but not until you have control over your money. If you can’t say that your spending is completely under control and your savings, giving, and bills come first, then you need to keep sticking to your budget.

       Even when you’re able to live without a budget, you should still keep updating your budget every year. Why? Because it helps you see where your money is going and where you can save on your expenses. It’s also a valuable tool for figuring out how much income you’ll need in retirement. Do everything you can to get yourself to the point where you don’t need to stick to a budget any more. But do not neglect making or updating a budget just because you don’t have to follow it down to the dollar.

       If you’re struggling to save anything, find yourself using credit cards to pay for essentials, or just can’t control your spending, sign up for free updates to Provident Planning so you can learn how to stick to a budget and find power to control your money through contentment in Christ.

       We’re bombarded with sales pitches and advertisements all day long. But there’s one very easy way to conquer any sales pitch with little effort or time. Corporate America has no power over someone who has “enough”. The power of that little word will help you overcome any attempt to part you from your money.

“That’s OK. I have enough already.”

       Whether it’s clothes, food, gadgets, tools, or any other stuff someone might try to sell you, telling them you have enough already will stop them cold. You can’t sell to someone who is content and has “enough”. Telemarketers don’t have a scripted response for “I have enough already.” Salesmen haven’t perfected their pitch so much that they can sell to someone who’s happy with what they already have.

       It may be important to add the fact that you’re already satisfied with what you have. Maybe a better response would be “Thanks. But I have enough _______ , and more _______ won’t make me any happier.” There will be some salespeople who will attempt to continue their sales pitch, but if you repeat that response a few times they’ll give up quickly.

       You can use that statement in a variety of ways. Here are a few that come to my mind:

  1. I have a big enough house, and a bigger house won’t make me any happier.
  2. I have a good enough car, and a newer car won’t make me any happier.
  3. I have clothes that are warm enough and good enough, and more clothes or fancier clothes won’t make me any happier.

       When we find satisfaction in what we have already, we break the power of consumerism in our lives. When we realize that what we have is enough, and more can’t make us any happier, we’ll learn to look to the true source of happiness. We’ll find that once we have Jesus we no longer need more of what the world has to offer. We’ll find our full joy, contentment, and purpose in following Him.

       The power of enough has exciting implications for our personal finances. By learning to be content and knowing what our “enough” is, we can have much better control over our spending and habits. We’ll be able to handle our money much better and use it more wisely. Contentment is so powerful that I’m going to spend some time looking at how we can be more content in many areas of our lives – our homes, cars, clothes, food, and even our taxes and savings among other things. So be sure to sign up for free updates to Provident Planning if you’re interested in gaining more control over your finances and finding contentment in your life!

       Looking for ways to save money on your food costs? Try these 10 ideas for minimizing your stomach’s impact on your budget:

1. Stop dining out! Cook at home instead.

       Paying someone else to fix your meals gets very expensive very quickly. Forget the argument that you save time by dining out. That only works for fast food – and you know better than that, right? Even if your kitchen skills are a little dull, you’ll be able to prepare a tasty meal in no time after a little practice. Make dining out a rare treat and your budget will thank you.

2. Create a meal menu for the week. Then make a grocery list and stick to it.

       Don’t let your refrigerator dictate your diet. Plan your meals for the week by looking at what’s on sale (without violating any of the remaining tips). Make your meals work together by planning for dishes that use the same ingredients. Then create your grocery list around that menu. Stick to your list when you’re shopping for groceries. You’ll save money two ways here. First, you’ll waste less food because your meals are planned out and work together. And second, you’ll spend less on impulse purchases because you’re sticking to your list. Oh, and make sure you eat before go shopping!

3. Buy unprocessed foods.

       Lay off the Cheez Whiz, soda, junk food, and prepared meals. These foods cost more than they’re worth, and they’re not healthy at all. Poor quality ingredients, additives, and way too much sodium mean you’re getting ripped off while destroying your health. Instead, stick to unprocessed foods. The less it’s been processed the better. Buy basic ingredients (like raw vegetables) and turn them into meals in your kitchen. You’ll be healthier and save a ton of money.

4. Buy produce in season.

       When you buy produce out of its regular harvest season you’ll pay more for a lower quality product. Buying in season means you’ll get a lower price and fresher fruits and vegetables. You’re also more likely to get locally grown produce than something that’s been shipped across the nation or world.

5. Buy in bulk.

       When buying staples consider buying in bulk. You’ll often get the exact same product for a lower cost per unit (ounce, pound, etc.). However, be careful to compare costs on the various sizes available. The biggest package may not always be the best buy.

6. Stock up when you find a good bargain.

       If a store has a great sale on an item you regularly use and can store, you can save a good bit of money by stocking up. Just make sure it won’t go bad before you can actually use it. And don’t buy stuff just because it’s on sale – be certain it’s something you’ll eat!

7. Reduce your meat intake.

       Meats are the most expensive parts of nearly any meal. By cutting back on the amount of meat you eat, you’ll save money and improve your health. Don’t worry about not getting enough protein. Americans eat much more protein than we actually need for a healthy diet. Less protein means better calcium absorption, which leads to stronger bones.

8. Don’t eat too much.

       Not only is it bad for your waist size, but it’s also bad for your budget. When you eat too much your body doesn’t efficiently turn the food into energy. All you get is a stuffed belly and money down the toilet (literally). Eat moderate portions and you’ll feel better and save money.

9. Don’t waste leftovers.

       If you planned your meals well in tip #2, you shouldn’t have to deal with this problem. But in case you didn’t do that, don’t forget to use all your leftovers. Anything you throw away is like throwing cash in the trash.

10. Price your recipes to find the cheapest recipes.

       By figuring out the cost per serving for the recipes you prepare the most, you’ll find the most affordable meals. If you want to see a true cost, add in the time you spent on preparation (less the time you would have spent driving and waiting to eat out). If you can’t remember what you paid for the ingredients, you can estimate prices from an online comparison. I use Safeway’s “Grocery Delivery” section on their website when pricing my own recipes. You can see the price and size for almost any item. You just need to enter a zip code where a store is located. If you don’t have a Safeway near you, try “22044” for a zip code. It’ll take you a little time to price your recipes, but it’s something you won’t need to do very often. If you find yourself needing to save a little more money, it’ll help to know which recipes are the cheapest. Finally, don’t focus on cost to the detriment of your health.